Your Healing Guide
From Broken to Whole: My Journey to Help You Heal
I know what it's like to feel empty despite success, to struggle with invisible trauma, and to wonder if you'll ever feel whole. Here's how I found my way - and how I can help you find yours.
My Story
From Empty Success to Authentic Wholeness
For years, I had everything I thought I wanted - but felt completely empty inside. Sound familiar?
I Thought I Was Broken
At 35, I had what everyone considered a successful life. Good career, nice home, respect from my peers. But inside, I felt completely empty. I couldn't understand why nothing brought me joy, why I felt so disconnected from others, why I seemed to be watching my life from the outside.
I thought there was something fundamentally wrong with me. I tried therapy, self-help books, meditation, positive thinking - nothing seemed to reach the core of my emptiness.
"I spent years believing I was broken. The truth was, I was just healing."
The Discovery
Everything Changed When I Learned About Childhood Emotional Neglect
One concept explained everything I had been experiencing - and showed me the path to healing.
The Moment Everything Clicked
When I first read about childhood emotional neglect, it was like someone had been watching my life. Every symptom, every struggle, every confusing feeling finally made sense.
I realized my parents weren't bad people - they just didn't know how to handle emotions. They provided for my physical needs but my emotional needs were invisible to them. And so they became invisible to me too.
For the first time in my life, I had hope. I wasn't broken - I was dealing with something real, something that had a name, something that could heal.
Professional Background
A Decade of Research and Real-World Results
My approach combines lived experience with extensive training in trauma-informed healing methods.
Trauma-Informed Training
Certified in Somatic Experiencing, EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and Polyvagal-informed therapy.
10+ Years of Research
Studied childhood emotional neglect, complex trauma, attachment theory, and healthy relationship dynamics.
10,000+ People Helped
Guided thousands through their healing journeys via books, coaching, and educational content.
Lived Experience
Everything I teach comes from my own healing journey. I practice what I share.
Real Impact, Real Transformation
These numbers represent real people who've found healing and hope through this work
Mission & Values
Why I Do This Work
Every person deserves to feel whole, worthy, and capable of love - both giving and receiving it.
No One Should Suffer Alone
I spent too many years thinking I was the only one who felt this way. I want to make sure no one else has to feel that alone.
My mission is simple: to help people understand that feeling empty, struggling with trauma, or having relationship difficulties doesn't mean you're broken. It means you're human, and it means there's a path to healing.
Beyond the Books
Getting to Know Me
I believe healing happens in authentic connection. Here's a little more about who I am.
Lifelong Learner
I'm constantly studying new approaches to healing and growth. My own healing journey continues every day.
Nature Lover
I find healing and inspiration in nature. Many of my insights come during long walks or quiet moments outdoors.
Relationship Advocate
I believe healthy relationships are both the goal and the method of healing. We heal in connection with others.
Hope Keeper
Even in my darkest moments, I hold hope for everyone who feels broken. If I can heal, so can you.
Trusted by 10,000+ Conscious Leaders
See why readers choose Vian Hart's books for their transformation journey
"Vian's work on emotional healing completely transformed how I lead my company. The insights were life-changing."
"The Masculine Blueprint helped me understand healthy relationship dynamics and build authentic connections."
"The Hidden Wounds provided the missing piece in my own healing journey. Vian's approach is comprehensive."
Ready to Start Your Transformation Journey?
Whether you're just beginning to understand your patterns or ready for deep healing, I'm here to guide you.